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How Exactly Should We Deal With Love?


Things happen too fast. In a moment, we never know we're totally swallowed by love, and nothing remains for ourselves.
It's like a trap that you can't easily let go. And if ever you will, you have to bleed and take the risk.
Relationships are ties that are common to us.
Everyone in this world are fruits of the word we called "relationship".
Some relationships are fruits of curiosity. While some are the bounties of life maturity.
Sometimes, relationships are not declared. It's mutually taken.
Some relationships are declared, but are not heartfelt taken.
These diverse aspects of love, and its effort to level the horizon of two romantic entities, are ultimate challenges to the definition of what love really is.
We say no one can define love except ourselves.
For when any famous writer attempted to define what love is, we come to question their ascendancy to take a stance on something they haven't experienced yet.
Or when we get to read the novels of authors who we presume have lived a good lovelife, the ultimate assumption is everything applies to us as well.
This is the myriad of veracity that we cannot fully insinuate.
Because we're blinded with the idea that anyone who took ahead is always right on the process.
But it's case-to-case basis.
That is why we need to parallel this with how a person is unique to anyone else.
How much more someone attached to another?
Indeed, a relationship is built of foundations of what these people invest for that love.
If they lived of lies, the foundation of that love will be broken because of lies as well.
If they shared their hearts and fueled it with compassion, the foundation is strong, you have mutual concessions right there, then we can say that petty storms are way small waves to destroy its walls.

Here are some of the love quotes I've got from famous movies:

City Of Angels
I would rather have had one breath of her hair, one kiss from her mouth, one touch of her hand, than eternity without it. One.

When Harry Met Sally
I love that after I spend day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it’s not because I’m lonely, and it’s not because it’s New Year’s Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

Alex and Emma
Some things are not meant to last, they just take a place in your heart and make you smarter the next time.

Runaway Bride
I guarantee that we’ll have tough times, and I guarantee that at some point one or both of us will want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I don’t ask you to be mine, I’ll regret it for the rest of my life cause I know in my heart you’re the only one for me.

The Hot Chick
You are the only person that can make my heart beat faster and slower at the same time.

The Princess Bride
Death cannot stop true love; it can only delay it for a little while.

Moulin Rouge
The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.

My Best Friend’s Wedding
If you love someone you say it, you say it right then, out loud. Otherwise, the moment just… passes you by.

Fried Green Tomatoes
I wonder how many people never get the one they want, but end up with the one they’re supposed to have.

Good Will Hunting
Sometimes I wish I had never met you. Because then I could go to sleep at night not knowing there was someone like you out there.

Forces of Nature
I always thought that there was this one perfect person for everybody in the world, you know, and when you found that person the rest of the world kind of magically faded away, and, you know, the two of you would just be inside this kind of protective bubble, but there is no bubble, I mean if there is you have to make it, I just think life is more than a series of moments, you know, we can make choices, and we can choose to protect the people we love, and that’s what makes us who we are and those are the real memories.

I do love the Hot Chick part.But I particularly like Moulin Rouge as a movie.

How exactly should we deal with love?
I think the answer is within us.
The best person who can answer things that concerns your heart is yourself.
But remember, love is never plain as it is.
As you came in this world of diversity, expect that differences might suave to challenge your ways.
But at the same time, the real vigor to hold on is the passion that burns when real love exists.
And make that as a tool for you to find your common grounds beyond differences ; a tool for you to strengthen your relationship and respect each others' interest.

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